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Male Comparison

4/1/2021

 
"I'm either better or worse than you."

"Tony Robbins is better than me."

"A homeless guy is worse than me."

"My neighbor has a badass truck that is better than my car."

"This guy I know has way more money than me and so he must be more intelligent."

"I need to be more outgoing, I need to buy a new truck, and I need to build wealth in order to move up the chain."
This is the narrative. I wasn't born with it. The world taught me this way of thinking. As an adult, it's my responsibility to look into this and grow my understanding. If I can't have compassion for my own "better/ worse than" thinking, I will continue to project this narrative onto others.

I will put you on a pedestal or I will put you below me and I will stay absorbed in "self" aggrandizing . My patterns will reinforce this because I will put myself in situations where this appears to be true.

Work Hard = Good person and rewards
Don't Work = Lazy person and bad things

It's not true.
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It's a story built from a mindset of fear and scarcity. Look in the mirror. All the projections are from you and about you. The comparison is an illusion.

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    Bryce Bauer

    Relationship Coach
    Salt Lake City, UT

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