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Can you be too nice?
If you find yourself consistently feeling unappreciated, it's most likely because of the way you've set up your relationship. Nice guys set up covert contracts, lie about how they're feeling, and overextend...
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Politics May 2026
If you don't want to hear my political opinion, skip this one. I share what I think, and then I give you a few relational moves to make, no matter where you land on the political spectrum.
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I'll tell you exactly what to say to her...
Do you ever find yourself stuck, not knowing what to say or do to make your partner feel safe with you? I got you. I'll give you specific scripts from real-life examples. It's not that complicated. If you've never...
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Commitment
I have a theory that Men generally struggle with commitment more than women in relationships. This is less about checking the boxes of "good husband" and more about their ability to commit to emotionally leaning in....
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Manipulation
We can struggle to assess whether or not we are being manipulated because our autonomy is so valuable. In intimate relationships, couples can get caught in arguments about motives when we feel afraid to do what's...
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How To Read Your Wife's Mind
You can read your wife's mind if you try. This is similar to that elusive attunement thing you've been hearing about. I'll break it down in simple terms, give you some real-world examples, and a short homework...
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Why Nice Guys Struggle With Dating
The issue that "Nice Guys" have with dating is not that they're nice. That's a myth. The issue is that they kill the vibe without realizing it. There are several ways they do this and it's pretty easy to change these...
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Highly Emotional Wives
In this episode, I'll explain the specific type of emotionality that is difficult to deal with, how you make it worse, and how you can interrupt this pattern in a matter of minutes.
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For Men who say "I don't care"
Have you ever heard someone go off about something or someone and then follow it up with "I don't care"? That's a strategy that's used when feelings get too big. If you use this phrase often, let me tell you why this...
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Sensitivity
In this episode, I will give you some familiar and specific scripts that couples repeat and tell you what's actually happening in these conversations. I bet you will be surprised. I'm also throw in a few new moves you...
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Physical Attraction
How much should physical attraction matter? What if you're already in a relationship where attraction is lacking? What factors play into our own feelings of attraction to our partner? Tune in.
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Mike Elliott Interview - Relational Leadership and Men's Initation
In this episode, I interview Mike Elliott, co-host of The Scared We Podcast with Courtney Wren. This was an enlightening and personal conversation on Sacred Masculinity, Relational Leadership, Emotionally Satisfying...
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