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For Men who say "I don't care"
Have you ever heard someone go off about something or someone and then follow it up with "I don't care"? That's a strategy that's used when feelings get too big. If you use this phrase often, let me tell you why this...
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Sensitivity
In this episode, I will give you some familiar and specific scripts that couples repeat and tell you what's actually happening in these conversations. I bet you will be surprised. I'm also throw in a few new moves you...
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Physical Attraction
How much should physical attraction matter? What if you're already in a relationship where attraction is lacking? What factors play into our own feelings of attraction to our partner? Tune in.
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Mike Elliott Interview - Relational Leadership and Men's Initation
In this episode, I interview Mike Elliott, co-host of The Scared We Podcast with Courtney Wren. This was an enlightening and personal conversation on Sacred Masculinity, Relational Leadership, Emotionally Satisfying...
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Roommate Syndrome
In this episode, I talk about how to avoid Roommate Syndrome and what to do if you're stuck there. I also talk about our relational capacity, which drives how we set up our relationships. If you want to dive in more,...
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The Silent Killer of Marriages: The Pause Button with Dr. Lee Baucom
Today I’m joined by Marriage and Family Therapist, relationship coach, author, husband, and father, Dr. Lee Baucom. In this powerful conversation, Dr. Baucom unpacks why so many couples unknowingly hit the “Pause...
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Marriage Disrespect
What's the difference between disrespect and sharing feelings? How do we separate personal attacks from feedback? What ways might fail to show respect that you don't see? When do you stop trying to feel more respected...
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5 Specific Phrases You Should Use
One sentence can change the course of a conversation. What's most true is often very simple. It's more efficient to share what matters most instead of wasting time arguing about several different things at once. By...
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5 Types of Trying That Don't Work
I bet you try to make your relationship better all the time. You think about it, you try to talk things out, and you probably have a good idea of what really doesn't work. You're smart. However, there are 5 big...
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What if my wife resents me?
A common experience I hear from Men is that they think their wife resents them. There's often more going on than they realize. Tune in to learn what may be going on with your partner and how you can communicate...
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Marriage Boredom
It's normal to feel bored when your partner doesn't share your passions and interests. However, there's much more that's going on. Boredom is a symptom of an inability to focus and express. I'll give you some new ways...
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You will never fully understand your partner (here's why)
There's no way you will ever fully understand your partner. Thinking you do or saying you do is going to backfire because it's a signal that you're done learning. I back this up with some solid brain research. Tune in...
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