What is Men's Group?

Men's Group is a container in which guys gather to share their wisdom, their ideas, and their struggles in a supportive environment.  Most Men have never had this type of consistent support from trusted friends.  Moreover, many of us have never been shown how to relate to ourselves and others so we may find ourselves feeling anxious, depressed, numb, or disconnected.  Even if we think we are somewhat happy with our lives, it's common that our partners start to feel dissatisfied with the relationship and begin to ask for more intimacy and connection.  I find that many Men come searching for a Men's group when they are having difficulties with intimate relationships.  This is a place where we can come together to talk about what's going on underneath the surface, learn new tools, and practice skills to show up as a better Man.  The most common topics in group are relationships, money, and health.  Between groups, it is an expectation that each guy connect with one other group member and stay in touch via email or text.  This is how we stay accountable to our goals and not drift off into isolation.  Twice per year, there is an outdoor retreat in which every member of every group is invited to come out and circle up, in-person.  We adventure, circle up around the fire, eat good food, connect with nature, and have fun.  It's a time to unwind, relax, and connect more deeply with your purpose.

What makes this Men's Group different?

Unlike some other groups, there is no initiation ritual to join or big investment in a live event.  You can join from the comfort of your own home and you don't have to have any previous experience with men's work.  Second, I personally interview all the members joining the group to make sure that they are not dealing with serious mental or emotional issues that would effect the overall safety of the group.  I also do my best to match guys with a group that is similar in personality and life experience.  Third, every member makes a 6-month commitment to one group so there is a consistent appearance of familiar faces.  The groups range in size from 5-8 individuals.  Last but not least, I am currently the only facilitator and I am constantly working on myself through individual coaching/therapy, couples therapy with my wife, personal men's group work, and continual coach training.  I also participate in the group and share what's happening in my life.  I'm not some distant leader who appears to have his shit together at all times.

How does it work?

• Two 90-minute Zoom calls per month
• Two 30-minute Partner Calls per month
• Goal Setting
• Text/ Email thread 
• During Group - Guided Meditation, Authentic Relating Practices, Group Discussion, Individual Coaching, Relationship Education, Challenge/ Support around Goals
• 2 Optional Men's Retreats (in-person) per year

Under 30 Men's Group

Most Men get thrown into society right after high school and are expected to know what to do.  There is little to no support for young Men moving into adulthood so they do what everyone else is doing, work and school.  Usually, within a short period of time, guys start to feel like they are missing out on something and they feel frustrated.  They may think things like, "What next?" or "I don't know what I want to do" or "I know what I want to do but, I don't know how to get there".  This is completely understandable, given how few resources there are for young Men.  It's not that you're lazy.  They just haven't been shown how to create a life that rocks!  This is definitely something you can accomplish in 6 months.  I guarantee it.  This is your time to step away from your parents and into a Tribe of other Men.  This is the way of the Warrior.

Under 30 Men's Group is for guys who are...
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• Stoked to make moves
• 20-30 years old
• Ready to move forward
• Teachable
• Open-minded
• Focused on becoming independent

Over 30 Men's Group

Adult Men are usually dealing with different situations than younger Men.  You may have kids, a mortgage, a career, and/ or a marriage that requires tending to on a regular basis.  You've been around the block and you've learned a few things along the way.  In the process of moving into mature adulthood, you may have lost touch with some of your old buddies.  Life looks a little bit different now and you start to think more coherently about your own mortality, your legacy, or the future of your Marriage.  At this stage in Life, there aren't a ton of resources for Men and many Men fall into patterns of Work, Eat, Hobby, Repeat.  You've got yourself together "enough".  It's possible that what some guys are missing at this point in their life is authentic connection.  You need someone to talk to, a place to get real, and a community that gets what you're going through.  What would it be like if you had a consistent group of Men that you could support and that could support you?

​Over 30 Men's Group is for guys who are...
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• 31-55 years old
• Personal Growth Warriors
• Interested in meditation
• Motivated to improve their Relationships
• Wanting community
• Open to feedback

What's the commitment?

The commitment to join is $200/ month for 6 months.  After your 6-month commitment you can renew for another 6 months or leave the group.

The Facilitator

Bryce Bauer grew up as a traditional Midwestern boy, wrestling, playing football, fighting, and getting into trouble.  His process of Waking Up occurred after dropping out of college and completing a 60-Day in-patient drug rehabilitation program.  In the last 13 years, he’s led Wilderness Quests in the backcountry of southern Utah, traveled the world for 18 months, amassed several coaching certifications, married his sweetheart, fought in the cage, and led 100’s of Men’s Groups. 

He knows how to create a powerful space for Men to open up, connect, and work through their difficulties.

“I know what it’s like to feel suicidal, depressed, angry and confused.  I also know what it’s like to be extremely vulnerable in front of a group of people, speak up for myself responsibly, confront my dark side, and get in touch with my tenderness.  I understand what it takes to make that transition.”

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Next Over 30 Group Starting August 2021
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Next Men's Retreat is April 30 - May 2 2021 in Utah

Update: We did it!